A friend of mine is expecting twins.She already has a 2 year old son as well.As for me,I’m shocked over this.In 6 months she’ll have 3 small children,and she’s the same age as me.I don’t have any children,not even close,and my clock hasn’t even started to tick.It’s more and more normal now to have children before your career.It’s almost an unspoken rule.That’s why I’m thinking about children,or the absense of them.I don’t want them when the situation isn’t right.But when will it be?And will I want one then